Keep the past in the past. Lot’s wife biggest problem was looking backward instead of faithfully moving forward. Of course, ponder the lessons life is teaching you. You’ll be able to figure out your strengths, weaknesses, temptations, and abilities. However, rehashing what might have been or asking “what if” can become an unhealthy obsession that steals the joy of the present. You have to understand what you can change and what you cannot. No amount of wishing or weeping will change what has happened. It is set in stone. The future is what you can shape, the future is open to your creation, the future can fill you with faith, excitement, and hope.