Too often we focus on making sure we look good publicly before we look good privately. Our life will be unbalanced if we care what others think of us more than we care about what is actually happening in our life. It’s like stuffing your closet full of trash and dirty clothes so our room looks clean. Pretty soon the closet is so full of junk we know it’s all going to break through the door soon. We are sitting in a clean room, but we’re upset and stressed. Forget about what anyone thinks about you and focus on what you think about you. Get your unseen, private life right and your seen, public life will take care of itself.