I absolutely worship my wife. (It's not quite idolatry, but close)  I remember when I was a teenager I would hear President Hinckley tell husbands and wives to be "fiercely loyal" to each other. Now that I'm married I can see why he was so adamant. I can see you have to be consistently aware of your words and actions when you hold the heart and feelings of another person in your hands.

There are two types of love - the love you feel without having to do much and the love you choose through deliberate action to put someone's needs above your own. Both are beautiful parts of life!