Pleasure, Passion, & Purpose. Research shows that we need all 3 in order to be truly happy adults. If you describe yourself as “unhappy”, let’s see if identifying what’s missing in these 3 areas helps. Perhaps filling that need will make a significant difference. What are your favorite pleasures? What are you passionate about? Where do you find your purpose? The answers to these questions can help you feel more satisfied and fulfilled with your daily life.